There comes a time when guys want to grow up, mature, and, find a reasonable girlfriend who isn't a blowup doll, an imaginary friend, or that hot girl across the street that just saw you looking at her through your binoculars. Yeah, those ones right next to your window. Well, anyway, sit right back and learn how to find a girlfriend if you've never had one.
Be Mature. A relationship requires a level
of maturity to deal with another person and requires you to be responsible for
your own actions. If you cannot deal with problems with another person, you
might as well not be in a relationship. If you are unable to be responsible
and/or mature, you may need to turn over a new leaf and start new
good habits. This also includes being humble and attentively ask for
advice about your personality. Everyone will have their own opinion, so ask a
lot of people.
Be hygienic. Buy some deodorant, cologne,
aftershave, and something to have you smelling good. The last thing a woman
wants to smell on a guy is the same smell that she noticed in her garbage this
morning. Get a haircut and make sure you get one regularly. Make sure you also
brush and floss regularly too. In the long-run being more hygienically aware
will make you more approachable.
Have a decent wardrobe.
Buy some decent clothes. No woman that I have ever known has fallen for a guy
who looks like he just walked out of a stupid outfit contest and won. If you
have no experience with fashion, don't worry! Visit your local newsstand or
drug store and get a fashion magazine. Or look at what most other people are
wearing. Don't mistake me for telling you to be like everyone else, you can be
original, but don't go beyond original and into crazy. You also don't need to
spend a lot of money, just look for some decent things; ask someone to go with
you to pick out your clothes.
Meet Women. Now that you're looking good,
smelling good, and feeling good, here's the fun part. Start networking and Become
Sociable. Don't be shy, join a club, go to parties or a place where
you can meet people and practice socializing with women. Take a dance lesson or
join a sports club. You want to meet lots of women, not just to find a
girlfriend, but also to find the right one for you. Be sure to Speak Up, start a conversation, read their reactions, get
to know them, and always try to have a good time. Most importantly, smile!
Make a move. Once you get to know them, and
they seem comfortable around you, find out if they are single. If they are, ask
her out for coffee or to a movie. Be sure to know how to Treat a Woman.
If you are denied, chin up! There will be more chances so keep at it! Be
yourself too! No girl wants to have a guy that's trying to act as someone that
your not!
Try to show your feeling to her, like when you meet
her you need to smile to her and always be near her when she's alone or has
problem . Make her laugh or happy
like telling a joke, and especially to be a hero for her.
Tips
- Exercise and eat
healthy. It will boost your self-confidence and women are
naturally attracted to a suitable male.
- Build self confidence
- Learn
how to talk to a woman.
- Always
improve
yourself.
- Be
polite.
- Get a
job if you don't already have one. A job shows that you are
capable and responsible.
- Being just friends or
being in the "friend zone" is not necessarily a bad place to be
because she usually has friends you can meet. You can also learn more
about women through this experience.
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